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Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. ~Richard Bach

Friendship and Betrayal

Being Betrayed In Friendship

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It’s hard to find friends, and it’s harder to find friends who you can trust. And when your best friend betrays you, you feel broken… broken from the inside. Loneliness kicks in and you feel at the worst of your moods. You feel angry, you feel depressed, and most of all – you feel BETRAYED!

While there is no crystal ball to predict if a particular friend is loyal or not, some friends may be betrayers from the start; and others may turn into betrayers because of what’s going on in their lives or because of changes in their personality. In your friendship, you can never be sure which way you are going!

Being betrayed feels awful and it builds up a lot of negativity towards people, towards life. You start to hate everyone, you feel betrayal is unforgivable, and you lose the trust in “friends” as well as “friendship”. Never would you trust anyone again.

But, that need not be the fate of every friendship. Right? You can also find the right partner who can love you just as much as you do. After all, not every friendship leads to betrayal, and it only depends on who you pick as your mate for life.

Find The Right Friend For A Lasting Friendship

With some relationships, you do not have a choice. But, finding the right partner is in your hands, and you have the choice to pick a friend you dearly love and care for. Whether the person returns the same gesture, is what leads into a short-lived or a lasting friendship. Make sure you find the right friend that can reciprocate and fill your life with joy, love and happiness.

 

  1. alisaleem252
    alisaleem25207-19-2012

    i was depressed by the same thing as i was betrayed by my really old school friend, sometime friends we find is by luck but sometimes we have to find them, the last tip was really helping, Thanks for sharing Lovelikeredwine.

  2. Tania
    Tania07-19-2012

    The worst pain in the world goes beyond the physical. Even further beyond any other emotional pain one can feel. It is the betrayal of a friend.

  3. LOVELIKE REDWINE
    LOVELIKE REDWINE07-31-2012

    The betrayal of a friend is very unsettling and sad but we have to forgive them and forgive ourselves for allowing them to do this to us .
    Thank you Tania
    Thank you Alisaleem252 for your comments
    sending y’all beautiful blessings

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